unfunnysjw:

exgaypositivity:

semitics:

semitics:

Not to be dramatic or anything but as a lesbian what saved my life was realizing that attraction is supposed to feel good

If your attraction to men makes you viscerally uncomfortable, distressed, and feels like a fulfillment of a default obligation rather than something that produces good and exciting feelings, perhaps it isn’t attraction

This is important to recognize! If these things are true for you, then you’re not attracted to men and it would be useless and unhealthy for you to continue trying to be attracted to men.

So stop- it’s okay. You don’t need to be attracted to men to be with one. You just need to care about him, and work on developing your relationship, with or without attraction.

That blog gives me a headache